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Where have all the manners gone?

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Fine manners need the support of fine manners in others.”

Perhaps I am in the wrong generation, or I was brought up differently but I can’t help to notice that common manners have been lacking in the world lately.

This whole blog idea came to me after I experienced such frustration recently that I needed a way to express my distaste.

A couple weeks ago I was attending a good friend’s father’s funeral. The ceremony ended and we all loaded into our cars to start the funeral procession. Leading from the church, the first stop light we come to has 2 police officers blocking traffic. I remember thinking, “Wow, this is great!”  Well that was short lived. It was insane to see the number of people who cut into our line and proceeded to drive in between. Let me make it known that there were 2 lanes so it was not necessary to be in our lane. I guess this was always a manner that was instilled in me ever since I received my license. To show my respect, I pull over and allow the procession to proceed with no interruptions. I surely do not cut in between them!

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I decided to compile a list of manners that should, again, have more emphasis.

  • Holding doors open. This does not just apply for ladies. Doors should be held for those whom are following you closely. This is a sign of good manners.
  • Pull over for emergency vehicles.
  • Please/Thank you/You’re welcome. These go so far and they take no effort. Also, your character can be misconstrued if you choose to not use these simple words. People lacking manners generally avoid these terms.
  • Eye contact. I know this is harder for some than others. But it shows the person you are speaking to that you are involved in the conversation.
  • Phone manners. There is a time and a place to speak on your phone. When you are in a check- out line, put your phone down, finish your transaction and then resume your conversation.
  • Acknowledge when someone lets you out in traffic. A simple wave will suffice.
  • Remove your hat during the National Anthem. For goodness sake! If you live in the USA, this song should mean something to you. Not to mention if you have ever fought, or know someone who has fought for this country. This song is for all of us. Show your respect, use your manners and remove your hat.

Am I expecting too much? Or are there some I missed?

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My Adventure Book

Sure, I have dreams and aspirations to do big things in life but I assume that they change depending on age. After watching the movie “Up” I was inspired to create my own bucket list. So here are 20 items off of my bucket list in no specific order.

1. Sky dive-Someone may have to push me out!

2. Learn to play the guitar-I own a guitar, I just need to learn how to play it!

3. Live abroad-preferably by a beach.carl_and_ellie

4. Be in a movie-I’m waiting for my big break.

5. Own a business.

6. See the Aurora borealis.

7. Do humanitarian work in a 3rd world country.

8. Visit all the continents (except Antarctica).

9. See the ball drop in Times Square.

10. Experience a real African Safari.

11. Scuba dive in the Great Barrier Reef.

12. Run a full marathon-I should probably start with a 5K.

13. Experience Oktoberfest in Germany-this may involve drinking from das boot.

14. Go to the airport and board a plane with no plan ahead.

15. Adopt a child.

16. Learn another language.-I doubt pig latin counts.

17. Go to the Super Bowl-Let’s go Bears!

18. See Wicked on Broadway.

19. Help our soldiers.

20. Attend a ball/gala.

Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans. –John Lennon

 

Any suggestions as to what I should tackle first?

 

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Widening the gap

I heard yet another story this morning of the mass amounts of cuts to the education system due to the economy.  Services being cut, athletic departments shrunk, music programs cut, and teachers being laid off.  It seems the story is the same time and time again.  The suggestion that caught my ear, one that I’ve heard before.  Have parents pay for sports, music, transportation etc.  The same issue I’ve heard before, in already flush school districts the parents can pick up this tab, but in already suffering school districts the parents simply can’t afford it.

I feel for this situation.  My husband and I bought a great house on a cute street in a lousy school district.  One year of our sons attending school was enough for us to pull them out and send them to private school.  We pay tuition, there is no transportation, we pay for participation in sports, lunches are more expensive if they don’t bring them from home, and I can’t tell you the endless ways we pay through donations.  Required time donations, donate money every other friday and the kids don’t have to wear uniforms and the list goes on and on.   We’re lucky, we can afford this.  Though I do admit some months it is hard.  Some months we question why so much money has to go out the door toward education when we are already paying property taxes. We marvel at how much could be going toward our financial goals if we didn’t pay this.  You would think that the property taxes on the billion (this amount is not based in fact) dollar refinery located in our district would make ours a school district flush with money.

The Occupy movement brought to the forefront of conversation the widening gap between the haves and the have-nots.  Doesn’t cutting education just widen this gap.  Kids of parents who can afford it continue to get the sports, the music the special education either because they are in a well to do district or because parents can afford to pick up the slack.  Kids in poor districts get it cut to bare bones.  Parents who can’t afford it are responsible to get their kids to school, no buses, what will this do to the rate at which kids miss school.  Music and sports get taken away, there goes the opportunity to continue their education through scholarships.  Class sizes increase and that kid who could be fully engaged with just a little extra push is left behind slowly slipping into the darkness of not understanding.

I don’t claim to be an expert on this subject or really fully understand how all this works, I’m just a parent hoping I’m making the right choices for my children, hoping that their opportunities are not shrunk by the ever-expanding gap.

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Victorian Holiday Festival

Since 1993, Lebanon, IL has been hosting an annual Victorian Holiday Festival that will take you back to the 1800′s.  The festival has performances, horse-drawn carriage rides, carolers in the streets, musicians, singers, merchants and other events of the Victorian era.

This year’s festival:  November 18th, 19th and 20th. The merchants will open @ 10:00 AM on Friday and Saturday until 9:00 PM. They are also open on Sunday from 12:00 PM-5:00 PM.

Victorian Christmas
Lebanon is known as the only city in Illinois that the famous author, Charles Dickens, stayed overnight. Historians believe that Lebanon was used as inspiration for Dickens’ A Christmas Carol-A Ghost Story of Christmas.  Now, each Christmas, Dickens’ A Christmas Carol is performed in Lebanon by the Looking Glass Playhouse. For Tickets you can call 618-537-4962 or visit their website at www.lookingglassplayhouse.com. This year’s performances are Friday, Saturday and Sunday, December 9th. 10th and 11th @ 7:30 PM and Sunday @ 2:00 PM.

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It’s Nacho Mama!

It’s Nacho Momma!

I love a good nacho!  Now, let’s be clear.  I am NOT talking about the tortilla chip covered in processed cheese food that is glop and can be used to spackle holes or as mortar!  I am talking acrab nachosbout creative, luscious versions of tortilla chips topped with real cheeses, some yummy meat, and a lot of other festive and fabulous toppings too numerous to mention.  I am on a quest for the different, the delicious, the best nachos in St. Louis.

One of my favorite not-average nachos is at a chain restaurant.  “What?  Gasp! A chain restaurant?  How dare you?!”  Well folks, I do dare!  I love a good Joe’s Crab Shack Nacho!  Why?  Uhmmm, crab?!  Yeah, it’s the crab!

Joe’s makes their nachos with their extra creamy and chock-full-o-crab crab dip.  Picture your favorite artichoke spinach dip made out of crab and cheese instead.  Add it to a nacho with more cheese, some crisp kernels of sweet corn and black beans (I love a black bean) and you have nacho indulgence! logo-schlafly

Second best?  Try the Schlafly Bottleworks in Maplewood right off of Manchester and Southwest.  Their nachos are BISON nachos with a lovely beer/cheese sauce hugging the tops of the tortilla chips.  Ah!  Beer and nachos, nachos and beer.  Lovely!

I challenge you.  Where are the best nachos in STL?  Please share.  I am having cravings….

Joes crab shack bullhorn clawJoe’s Crab Shack has two locations in the STL area, both right next to major malls in Fairview Heights and at Mid-Rivers in St. Peters.

I also love a good inappropriate t-shirt…Don’t tell my 8 year old!

Schlafly Bottleworks, 7260 Southwest Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63143-2454
(314) 241-2337

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Pumpkin Cheesecake Bites

Fall= pumpkins.

I recently discovered this recipe on pinterest.com that is absolutely delicious! Enjoy!

Black Bottomed Mini Caramel
Pumpkin Cheesecake Bites

pumpkin cheesecake bites
8 whole Oreos, finely ground in food processor

1 1/2 Tablespoons melted butter

8 oz softened cream cheese

1/2 Cup granulated sugar

1/2 Cup pumpkin puree (I used Libby’s)

1 large egg

1 teaspoon vanilla

1/2 teaspoon cinnamon

1/4 teaspoon fresh ground nutmeg

3 Lowfat caramel dip (comes in a package of 6 20z little cups)

12 Pumpkin Spice Hershey Kisses, unwrapped

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Combine ground Oreos and melted butter  into a bowl until well combined. Spoon into 12 mini cheesecake cups that have been sprayed with cooking spray. Press into the bottom of each cup so the crust is flat. Partially bake for 10 minutes then
remove from oven.

2. In a stand or electric mixer beat the cream cheese, sugar and pumpkin until smooth. Beat in egg, vanilla, cinnamon and nutmeg until combined. Pour evenly into the 12 cups filling about 3/4 way full. Spoon about a teaspoon of caramel into the tops of each filled cup and swirl with a toothpick gently.  Bake for 25-28 minutes or until cheesecake is cooked through. Let cool completely.

3. Remove cheesecakes from pan and top each with a spoonful of remaining caramel and a Pumpkin Spice Hershey Kiss. Refrigerate until ready to serve.

12 mini cheesecakes

Do you have any good pumpkin recipes??

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